There are so many posts here about what is wrong with Mississippi, detailing all of her faults and expounding upon (what is thought to be) hopelessness regarding her future. Whether here or elsewhere, such sentiments always drop some joy from my heart. So, here is a thread asking ya'll what, from your experience of/in our beloved home state (whether born or adopted), has added to your life.
I'll start.
When I was a kid, the men from our church (in South Jackson) would gather outside after services and have conversations. I learned that tough, working class men were kind and cared about other people. I learned how to talk to other people and reflect a caring, respectful spirit for them. As a Mississippian abroad (if you are out of state), you might not realize that this is not a common characteristic for an American, because it is part of your DNA (to you, not something unusual at all).
How many times has it been said to me, "You are such a nice guy..." Quickly, since I am mathematical and logical in thinking (leave no room for mistakes), "I'm not nice at all. I'm from Mississippi. That's how we are. We are taught to be that way. It's part of our culture. But really, if you want to meet some nice people...I can introduce you to people down there who are so kind that you would not doubt that there is a God."
Mississippi is unique, and by "Mississippi," I mean her people and our customs. Surely, we can do better, but maybe we could start by acknowledging that we did, in fact, gain some advantages from being from such a soulfully rich place.
Thank you, Mississippi, in spite of being an introvert who could whittle away all time without much need of anyone, I can still charm the white socks off a husky.
What do you appreciate about Mississippi?
I'll start.
When I was a kid, the men from our church (in South Jackson) would gather outside after services and have conversations. I learned that tough, working class men were kind and cared about other people. I learned how to talk to other people and reflect a caring, respectful spirit for them. As a Mississippian abroad (if you are out of state), you might not realize that this is not a common characteristic for an American, because it is part of your DNA (to you, not something unusual at all).
How many times has it been said to me, "You are such a nice guy..." Quickly, since I am mathematical and logical in thinking (leave no room for mistakes), "I'm not nice at all. I'm from Mississippi. That's how we are. We are taught to be that way. It's part of our culture. But really, if you want to meet some nice people...I can introduce you to people down there who are so kind that you would not doubt that there is a God."
Mississippi is unique, and by "Mississippi," I mean her people and our customs. Surely, we can do better, but maybe we could start by acknowledging that we did, in fact, gain some advantages from being from such a soulfully rich place.
Thank you, Mississippi, in spite of being an introvert who could whittle away all time without much need of anyone, I can still charm the white socks off a husky.
What do you appreciate about Mississippi?