We don't either. My wife was actually out of town for work and I don't think we even talked on Tuesday. I grudgingly sent suckers to school with the kids, no notes. One of the dumbest holidays.Does anyone here besides me just simply not do valentine's day?
Yep, show me a guy who is fearful on valentines day and I'll show you a guy who likely won't stay married (unless his wife can't do any better).We don't either. My wife was actually out of town for work and I don't think we even talked on Tuesday. I grudgingly sent suckers to school with the kids, no notes. One of the dumbest holidays.
This take will flame some buttholes on here. I have kept a tally on our married friends over the years that are overly affectionate in public or social media... Holding hands everywhere they go, posting fake stuff on social media, etc. About 75% of those couples are divorced or cheat all the time on each other. The other 25% are just annoyingly happy. Most of the actually happy couples I know act like adults in public and are affectionate in private.
We don’t do valentines, didn’t even do it when dating, but I will slap that *** in public whenever I get the chance. I’ll even cop a feel during the prayer at church. I don’t know if that puts me in the 75, 25 or regular folks category.We don't either. My wife was actually out of town for work and I don't think we even talked on Tuesday. I grudgingly sent suckers to school with the kids, no notes. One of the dumbest holidays.
This take will flame some buttholes on here. I have kept a tally on our married friends over the years that are overly affectionate in public or social media... Holding hands everywhere they go, posting fake stuff on social media, etc. About 75% of those couples are divorced or cheat all the time on each other. The other 25% are just annoyingly happy. Most of the actually happy couples I know act like adults in public and are affectionate in private.
I essentially acted like Valentine’s Day didn’t exist until my daughter started school and they had “valentines parties”.Does anyone here besides me just simply not do valentine's day?
I'm not judging or anything, it's very difficult to break away from societal pushes, whether it's marketing, pressure to feel important in front of others, or just greed. Worse today than it's ever been, with social media. And some folks like gifts, both giving and receiving. I don't understand that, never have, but I'm not other people, and they aren't me. Overall I don't like the pressure of that ONE day.And here I am feeling bad for doing the bare minimum of a card, and flowers. Sometimes I throw in cookies or candy. Wife tells me not to do it every year. Then every year something shows up at her work, and I can tell how happy it makes her.
I will get mine a box of Godiva chocolate. To me, it's way over priced, but its her favorite so is it really overpriced?And here I am feeling bad for doing the bare minimum of a card, and flowers. Sometimes I throw in cookies or candy. Wife tells me not to do it every year. Then every year something shows up at her work, and I can tell how happy it makes her.
Slapping that *** in public is very healthy... could lead to some advanced punishment later that night if you're lucky.We don’t do valentines, didn’t even do it when dating, but I will slap that *** in public whenever I get the chance. I’ll even cop a feel during the prayer at church. I don’t know if that puts me in the 75, 25 or regular folks category.
It's like a law of the universe that if a man is gushing on social media about his wife or girlfriend, he's been balls deep in another woman within the past 7 days.We don't either. My wife was actually out of town for work and I don't think we even talked on Tuesday. I grudgingly sent suckers to school with the kids, no notes. One of the dumbest holidays.
This take will flame some buttholes on here. I have kept a tally on our married friends over the years that are overly affectionate in public or social media... Holding hands everywhere they go, posting fake stuff on social media, etc. About 75% of those couples are divorced or cheat all the time on each other. The other 25% are just annoyingly happy. Most of the actually happy couples I know act like adults in public and are affectionate in private.
Sounds like like something that would happen to a Greenwoodian. Some folks say there is a curse on that town, only to be broken in the unlikely event a residents actually escapes.Wife and I don't go out for Valentines. This started our first ever Valentine's when we were dating. Allow me to set the stage...
She lived in Starkville and I lived in Greenwood. The day before I had gotten food poisoning and felt like warmed over death. She told me not to worry about coming up but I'll be damned if I miss our first Valentine. Besides, I had already made reservations at the best place in town and had ordered a dozen roses to be delivered at work. So that day I am at work barely keeping my head off my desk and I keep waiting for a text or email saying I got the flowers, I love them, thank you thank you, etc. It never came I didn't want to ask her if she got them and ruin the surprise, though. When I get off work I point the truck east and head to Starkvegas. I get to her apartment and we head to the restaurant for our 7:00pm reservations. We get there and that parking lot is packed. Cars everywhere. I'm jumping curbs and everything else trying to find a parking spot. Finally find one and go inside and the lobby is shoulder to shoulder. I make a comment that I am glad we have reservations. I Barry Sanders my way to the podium and give my name . She tells me it will be about a two hour wait. I figure she didn't hear me over all the noise say I have reservations so I repeat that fact. She looks at me and says so does everybody else here in the lobby. I get Forest Whitaker eye. Talk to my future wife and we realize anyplace else above Barnhill's is going to be just as bad and we have no reservations anywhere else. So we wait. And wait. And wait. And I feel like dog ****. Finally, around 9:30 we get to a table. And then we wait again. Around 10:30 or so a waitress shows up to see what we want to drink. We don't see another employee until after 11:00 when we finally get our drinks and she takes our order. We each order a ribeye and baked potato with salad. They're out of salad. Ok. Don't care. 11:30 we see a waitress take an order to the table behind us. I thought that sure looked like our order. Then I hear the guy at the table behind us tell his wife that wasn't what they ordered but it was food so he isn't saying anything. Forest Whitaker eye returns. Close to midnight we finally get our order. Here is where it gets really good. They only had one clean set of silverware in the entire mother17ing restaurant. So we had to take turns cutting a few pieces of steak and eating it and then passing the knife and fork across the table. So we got there at 7:00 and it was close to 1:00 before we left. Suffice to say I did not pay them a dime that night. I get her back to my apartment and since I had to work the next day I had to drive home. So cold February night and I have my window down and my head out the window trying to not to hurl. I make it home, park sideways in the driveway. Turn off the truck and run outside and deposit everything I had eaten since the 6th grade leaning against my house.
Next day I decide I am not going to work and just lay in bed all day trying to decide if I am alive or dead. Which brings me to the dozen roses. When I had gotten to her apartment I ask if she got the flowers and she said she did not. So that next day once I decided I might make it to see another sunrise I call the florist up to ask WTF. I was told they just forgot to submit the order but they can deliver them today if I like or they can give me a refund. Didn't see the point in flowers a day late so I opted for the refund.
And that is why we never go out to eat on Valentines. I just pick up some steak / lobster at the store and cook it myself.
I'm telling you, we have been got and don't even know it. Engagement rings, everything. And then there's this, no wonder the marketing is the way it is, first world issues:I had no idea.............Christ
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I called to order some flowers for my wife from the store I've used the last ~10 years. My typical order has averaged from $50 to $100 over the years. They asked me what I wanted - said my wife doesn't like roses so what else do they have. She says we have A and B, prices START at $200.... I literally couldn't speak....I had no idea.............Christ
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Wife and I don't go out for Valentines. This started our first ever Valentine's when we were dating. Allow me to set the stage...
She lived in Starkville and I lived in Greenwood. The day before I had gotten food poisoning and felt like warmed over death. She told me not to worry about coming up but I'll be damned if I miss our first Valentine. Besides, I had already made reservations at the best place in town and had ordered a dozen roses to be delivered at work. So that day I am at work barely keeping my head off my desk and I keep waiting for a text or email saying I got the flowers, I love them, thank you thank you, etc. It never came I didn't want to ask her if she got them and ruin the surprise, though. When I get off work I point the truck east and head to Starkvegas. I get to her apartment and we head to the restaurant for our 7:00pm reservations. We get there and that parking lot is packed. Cars everywhere. I'm jumping curbs and everything else trying to find a parking spot. Finally find one and go inside and the lobby is shoulder to shoulder. I make a comment that I am glad we have reservations. I Barry Sanders my way to the podium and give my name . She tells me it will be about a two hour wait. I figure she didn't hear me over all the noise say I have reservations so I repeat that fact. She looks at me and says so does everybody else here in the lobby. I get Forest Whitaker eye. Talk to my future wife and we realize anyplace else above Barnhill's is going to be just as bad and we have no reservations anywhere else. So we wait. And wait. And wait. And I feel like dog ****. Finally, around 9:30 we get to a table. And then we wait again. Around 10:30 or so a waitress shows up to see what we want to drink. We don't see another employee until after 11:00 when we finally get our drinks and she takes our order. We each order a ribeye and baked potato with salad. They're out of salad. Ok. Don't care. 11:30 we see a waitress take an order to the table behind us. I thought that sure looked like our order. Then I hear the guy at the table behind us tell his wife that wasn't what they ordered but it was food so he isn't saying anything. Forest Whitaker eye returns. Close to midnight we finally get our order. Here is where it gets really good. They only had one clean set of silverware in the entire mother17ing restaurant. So we had to take turns cutting a few pieces of steak and eating it and then passing the knife and fork across the table. So we got there at 7:00 and it was close to 1:00 before we left. Suffice to say I did not pay them a dime that night. I get her back to my apartment and since I had to work the next day I had to drive home. So cold February night and I have my window down and my head out the window trying to not to hurl. I make it home, park sideways in the driveway. Turn off the truck and run outside and deposit everything I had eaten since the 6th grade leaning against my house.
Next day I decide I am not going to work and just lay in bed all day trying to decide if I am alive or dead. Which brings me to the dozen roses. When I had gotten to her apartment I ask if she got the flowers and she said she did not. So that next day once I decided I might make it to see another sunrise I call the florist up to ask WTF. I was told they just forgot to submit the order but they can deliver them today if I like or they can give me a refund. Didn't see the point in flowers a day late so I opted for the refund.
And that is why we never go out to eat on Valentines. I just pick up some steak / lobster at the store and cook it myself.
I’m still relatively new to the board, but what is the saying…pictures pleaseI grilled rib eyes for dinner. No card, no flowers. We had planned to go eat Mexican for lunch but I was putting brake pads and rotors on her suv and didn’t get finished in time. She got new brakes for Valentines. I was sore from being on my hands and knees all morning and went to bed early. She came through naked and said she was taking a shower. I was asleep when she got out of the shower. She didn’t care.
We don’t either, never have, but there’s no way in hell I wait 3 1/2 hrs to order a drink, much less eat.Wife and I don't go out for Valentines. This started our first ever Valentine's when we were dating. Allow me to set the stage...
She lived in Starkville and I lived in Greenwood. The day before I had gotten food poisoning and felt like warmed over death. She told me not to worry about coming up but I'll be damned if I miss our first Valentine. Besides, I had already made reservations at the best place in town and had ordered a dozen roses to be delivered at work. So that day I am at work barely keeping my head off my desk and I keep waiting for a text or email saying I got the flowers, I love them, thank you thank you, etc. It never came I didn't want to ask her if she got them and ruin the surprise, though. When I get off work I point the truck east and head to Starkvegas. I get to her apartment and we head to the restaurant for our 7:00pm reservations. We get there and that parking lot is packed. Cars everywhere. I'm jumping curbs and everything else trying to find a parking spot. Finally find one and go inside and the lobby is shoulder to shoulder. I make a comment that I am glad we have reservations. I Barry Sanders my way to the podium and give my name . She tells me it will be about a two hour wait. I figure she didn't hear me over all the noise say I have reservations so I repeat that fact. She looks at me and says so does everybody else here in the lobby. I get Forest Whitaker eye. Talk to my future wife and we realize anyplace else above Barnhill's is going to be just as bad and we have no reservations anywhere else. So we wait. And wait. And wait. And I feel like dog ****. Finally, around 9:30 we get to a table. And then we wait again. Around 10:30 or so a waitress shows up to see what we want to drink. We don't see another employee until after 11:00 when we finally get our drinks and she takes our order. We each order a ribeye and baked potato with salad. They're out of salad. Ok. Don't care. 11:30 we see a waitress take an order to the table behind us. I thought that sure looked like our order. Then I hear the guy at the table behind us tell his wife that wasn't what they ordered but it was food so he isn't saying anything. Forest Whitaker eye returns. Close to midnight we finally get our order. Here is where it gets really good. They only had one clean set of silverware in the entire mother17ing restaurant. So we had to take turns cutting a few pieces of steak and eating it and then passing the knife and fork across the table. So we got there at 7:00 and it was close to 1:00 before we left. Suffice to say I did not pay them a dime that night. I get her back to her apartment and since I had to work the next day I had to drive home. So cold February night and I have my window down and my head out the window trying to not to hurl. I make it home, park sideways in the driveway. Turn off the truck and run outside and deposit everything I had eaten since the 6th grade leaning against my house.
Next day I decide I am not going to work and just lay in bed all day trying to decide if I am alive or dead. Which brings me to the dozen roses. When I had gotten to her apartment I ask if she got the flowers and she said she did not. So that next day once I decided I might make it to see another sunrise I call the florist up to ask WTF. I was told they just forgot to submit the order but they can deliver them today if I like or they can give me a refund. Didn't see the point in flowers a day late so I opted for the refund.
And that is why we never go out to eat on Valentines. I just pick up some steak / lobster at the store and cook it myself.
This times a million. Why do you have to tell your wife Happy Anniversary on Facebook? Tell her in person,We don't either. My wife was actually out of town for work and I don't think we even talked on Tuesday. I grudgingly sent suckers to school with the kids, no notes. One of the dumbest holidays.
This take will flame some buttholes on here. I have kept a tally on our married friends over the years that are overly affectionate in public or social media... Holding hands everywhere they go, posting fake stuff on social media, etc. About 75% of those couples are divorced or cheat all the time on each other. The other 25% are just annoyingly happy. Most of the actually happy couples I know act like adults in public and are affectionate in private.
Only for guys who don’t get it regularlyPoon is a helluva drug
Horse shi t. It’s undefeated for a reason.Only for guys who don’t get it regularly
99 percent of the stuff on facebook is just a bunch of vain, narcissistic, pretentious crap.This times a million. Why do you have to tell your wife Happy Anniversary on Facebook? Tell her in person,