I live in NY and both my kids went to SUNY schools. UB (Bufffalo) has great medical programs and my younger son got his DPT there. My other son got his Bacherlor's and MBA at SUNY-Oswego. In state tuition is much cheaper than PSU.However, the graduate tuition at the medical type programs like physical therapy are twice the undergraduate tuition. In reality while SUNY Buffalo has had decent football teams, their sports programs sure are not like many top schools like PSU, OSU, Michigan, Wisconsin, and many others. They do not have one main hub like University Park-so it is a much different system than Penn State. I sure do not see any major efforts to make top sports programs in the SUNY system currently, although at times efforts were made at Buffalo. Some top private schools in northern NY like Clarkson and St. Lawrence have been division one in a sport or two like hockey.
I graduated many years ago from PSU as a graduate student and do give financial support to PSU. I must admit much of my loyalty to PSU was based on love for their football program and Joe Paterno. My kids had good college experiences but no real loyalty to their universities and I would not think they would ever donate much to their campuses or feel a need to visit them again.