So my college best friend from State has been engaged now for 4 months. I was obviously asked to be a groomsman right away. My brother in law, who I’m friends with but not super close to, just got engaged and chose the same date as my best friend. He also asked me to be a groomsman. My wife thinks I should be in her brothers wedding since that is family. Am I in the wrong for choosing my friends wedding? What would you do in this situation?
you are not wrong but you have many factors to consider
how long have you been married.
how long do you want to be married?
is her family rich?
has your best friend left you in his will?
have you been in either of the others wedding? (bro code, bro...bro code)
divorce is 'spensive
marriage is kryptonite for friendships
so...DO YOU REALLY WANT TO COME HOME AT NIGHT EVERY NIGHT AFARID TO WALK IN TO YOUR OWN HOME BECAUSE IF YOU BREATH WRONG SHE"LL START HER BITCHIN' ABOUT $H1+ THAT YOU DO/DID -- OR WORSE -- DIDN'T DO? HUH? NO WON WANTS THAT!!1!!
AND WHILE YOURE WORRIED ABOUT WHY SHE IS SO F____G PISSED WHEN YOU DIDNT TAKE OUT THE GARBAGE 4 MONTHS AFTER THE WEDDING...IT WONT BE THAT YOU DIDNT TAKE OUT THE GARBAGE -- NO SIR -- IT'LL BE THAT SHE WILL HANG YOU OUT LIKE LAUNDRY CAUSE YOU PICKED THE "BRO CODE" OVER HER OWN FAMILY 4 MONTHS AGO AND 56 MISTAKES YOU MADE LATER
domestic harmony. you try to keep it but it comes and goes. try to keep it. AMEN.