Look. I don't believe Jesus or religion should be FORCED on anyone...
But that isn't what the original question was. You are discussing two things. If you are a follower of Jesus' teachings, there is no 'CHOICE' of helping people, etc... and there certainly isn't qualifying statements about when/why/how you should help. Someone needs help, you help them. THAT is Jesus' teaching. Don't know how you have heard/seen anything but that if you are paying any attention to the book. (well, I do but that involved justification of actions).
I'm done though. You believe what you want to believe. THat's your god given, american, buddhist, socialist, anti communist right. Just don't ask a question if you don't want an answer.