Did the first girl you ever ask out say yes or no(girls did you tell the first guy yes or no)

Taco73

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With valentines day coming up, just putting a question out there other than the usual "where did you first meet your spouse" or "how did you propose"?

I knew a girl in high school that I liked, it took me 6 months before I could work up the courage to ask her out(I had no confidence in myself back then) she said no, she had just started dating another guy. Hurt at the time but ended up being the learning experience I needed to ask the next girl out(my now wife😁).
My wife told me no repeatedly. She lost the numbers game.
 

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The one girl I wanted to date lived down the street from me, in Charleston. She was too good looking to ask out. I am on vacation in NYC with my parents when they offer to send me up to the observation deck on the Empire State Building. Sure, I did it, walked around for five minutes and there she was. Of all things she too was on the observation deck, just standing there. We talked, and made plans for a date. True story.
 

atl-cock

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The one girl I wanted to date lived down the street from me, in Charleston. She was too good looking to ask out. I am on vacation in NYC with my parents when they offer to send me up to the observation deck on the Empire State Building. Sure, I did it, walked around for five minutes and there she was. Of all things she too was on the observation deck, just standing there. We talked, and made plans for a date. True story.
Sleepless in Charleston?
 
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GCJerryUSC

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I dont remember the first one but Valentines Day still brings back bad memories of VDay, 1993, when my fairly serious girlfriend of 10 months dumped me on Valentines Day. I was 6 weeks from turning 23 and Had NO IDEA it was coming and never got much of an explanation. Broke my heart but looking back? THANK GOD IN HEAVEN I didnt end up married to that little witch. Met the one a few years later and still with her today. Dont see either of us going anywhere. Stuck.
I am eternally grateful to the ones who said no because it led to the love of my life.
 

Dcgc28

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To OP yes first girl I asked out said yes, but I had some say no after
 

CockofEarle

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Didn’t seem like I had money when I was getting up at 4:30 am delivering milk off a Diary Truck in the 50’s when I was in the 4th grade. Course, always had milk though. :)
I’m more interested in yer in-depth mattress work🤣
 

Gamecock Jacque

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lol classic internet post..."I got so many girls back then" did you also not make pro sports because you blew out your knee?
That's not what Guitar Cock said. He didn't get married until his late 30's so he had plenty of time to date. Sorry that you didn't "date" as many but I have to say that's not necessarily a bad thing.
 

Dcgc28

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That's not what Guitar Cock said. He didn't get married until his late 30's so he had plenty of time to date. Sorry that you didn't "date" as many but I have to say that's not necessarily a bad thing.
"I dated quite a few" is not the same thing as I had plenty of time. Reality is he probably dated 4 or 5 girls and had hookups like almost every dude who ever went to college.

The brag is the annoying part, I did alright for myself and I'm happy with where I landed. I certainly wouldn't seek out validation from strangers on a paid forum by mocking another members life choices like Guitarcock did.
 

Gamecock Jacque

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"I dated quite a few" is not the same thing as I had plenty of time. Reality is he probably dated 4 or 5 girls and had hookups like almost every dude who ever went to college.

The brag is the annoying part, I did alright for myself and I'm happy with where I landed. I certainly wouldn't seek out validation from strangers on a paid forum by mocking another members life choices like Guitarcock did.
Agree that seeking validation from strangers on a board is sad and pathetic. But to be honest he did say "dated" using quote marks. And some might say "I did alright for myself" would be bragging. Not me mind you.
 

Harvard Gamecock

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I'll also add something I heard almost 40 years ago. Falling in love is not a good idea (i.e., you lose control and don't think logically). Grow to love your spouse. Obviously, you have to have a comparable value system to get started, and chemistry to keep it going. Grow to love and appreciate your spouse.
Please don't get the wrong idea, I'm not knocking your premise, but I've found that you can't really control who you fall in love with, it usually just happens.
Sure there's times when you start as friends and then it becomes much more.
But as long as it works out, then that is all that matters. :)
 

atl-cock

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Please don't get the wrong idea, I'm not knocking your premise, but I've found that you can't really control who you fall in love with, it usually just happens.
Sure there's times when you start as friends and then it becomes much more.
But as long as it works out, then that is all that matters. :)
No, you can't control whom you "fall for," but one ought to take a step back and evaluate if this will be a good long-term relationship. Otherwise, you may end up in a relationship which doesn't work out.

I'll state that "good chemistry" is a "controlled fall."
 

Wycombecock

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Actually never got a no, but many I never asked out again. Now looking back, I'm glad I didn't. LOL.
 
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Harvard Gamecock

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Seems this is "I was such a stud back in those years" for some posters. Well, I wasn't and didn't date much BUT I won the lottery with my chosen one.
I dated a fair share back in my day, nothing that I would label extraordinary but a fair amount. Several were very attractive/pretty, but I have no problem admitting, there was 1 in particular that just broke my heart, and it took me quite a while to get over it. Kind of normal stuff.
I think the "I was quite the stud" is an overcompensation.
 

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I’m more interested in yer in-depth mattress work🤣
Are you referring to my part time delivery job at A furniture store in Georgetown? We delivered a mattress to one of the Sunset Lodge (house of ill repute)cabins and a prostitute got out of the shower, wrapped a towel around her and came and bounced up and down on the mattress. She said that I may not believe her but they go though mattresses a lot faster than anyone else.

Had I told you that story before?
 
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CockofEarle

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Are you referring to my part time delivery job at A furniture store in Georgetown? We delivered a mattress to one of the Sunset Lodge (house of ill repute)cabins and a prostitute got out of the shower, wrapped a towel around her and came and bounced up and down on the mattress. She said that I may not believe her but they go though mattresses a lot faster than anyone else.

Had I told you that story before?
Yes & you must confess yer sins…….the whole board should know yer part in the “oldest profession “. 🤣
 
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I honestly can't remember the first girl I asked out. I'd say I had slightly more yes's than no's. I was never the one the girls all dreamed about but I think I did ok.
Off topic but being a high school teacher and seeing what I see daily I think today's girls say yes a lot more than they did when I was growing up.
 

CockofEarle

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With the riff-raff.
My kind of crew😁
I honestly can't remember the first girl I asked out. I'd say I had slightly more yes's than no's. I was never the one the girls all dreamed about but I think I did ok.
Off topic but being a high school teacher and seeing what I see daily I think today's girls say yes a lot more than they did when I was growing up.
Where were these wimens a half century ago? Well they’ve finally morphed into the fairgrounds parking lot🤣
 

CockofEarle

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Are you referring to my part time delivery job at A furniture store in Georgetown? We delivered a mattress to one of the Sunset Lodge (house of ill repute)cabins and a prostitute got out of the shower, wrapped a towel around her and came and bounced up and down on the mattress. She said that I may not believe her but they go though mattresses a lot faster than anyone else.

Had I told you that story before?
We’ll look what I just found under one of those mattresses…….😎
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