I wish I didn't care so much

Rhode Island Dork

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Sorry if this gets long......

So I was born into a clem family & grew up within shouting distance of that dreaded place. In 1984, the excitement around the state about Gamecock football captured me. I was 6. I asked my parents for a Gamecock shirt for Christmas. For some reason, they obliged, even though they were Iptay members. Still to this day, my sibling chastises my parents for their decision. Anyway, I stuck with the Cocks, even though there were Tigers everywhere around me. In 1987, a longtime Gamecock Club member offered to take me to my first Carolina game. It was a 40-10 Cock victory over VPI. Sat in the south endzone. When I heard 2001 blare for the 1st time, I was hooked even further. No chance I'd ever go back to the orange. Fast forward to 1993, my parents, iptay boosters, again, agreed to let me do something. I saved my allowance money & they let me throw in with some neighbors who were Gamecock Club members to buy a season ticket. I would continue to do this for over a decade, even though just a few years later, I became a student at Carolina (there was no other place I even bothered applying to). I kept buying that ticket, even though I got student tickets during my time as a student, because I was worried I would lose it. My time as a student was rough on the football field--the Fat Bradstard era. My final football season was the 0-11 1999 season. Again, my loyalty & love never waivered. Anyway, & hitting the fast forward button........I'm now in my upper 40s, have a child at Carolina, & I still watch every game with the same intensity that I did 20+ years ago. My problem now is that more than ever, greed & entitlement has engulfed college athletics. A huge majority of players are now MERCS. They care little to NONE about the school I love. There are very few Boogie Huntleys (this young man needs to be praised often, & I hope he never has to buy a drink ever in his life in this state) who show love for Carolina. I thought Emmanwori might have been one, but boy was I wrong. He turned out to be just a selfish quitter. I'm at the stage where I want to care less. I have a closet FULL of Carolina attire. I wear it to work multiple times a week because I love to show my pride for my school. I feel like I need to change. If the most identifiable people that wear my school's logo don't care, then I feel like I should care less, as I'm just a simpleton that happens to be an alumni. Any advice from anyone who has successfully done this. I want to care a lot less.

Sorry so long. I'm frustrated & pissed. That Emmanwori stunt yesterday is something I never thought I'd see happen on my school's team. Especially from a home grown, local product.
 

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Brother, pump the brakes on that and focus on having a good first day of 2025!

Our age, history and massive amount of Gamecock clothing and paraphernalia are similar. Except I was born into a Gamecock Family. Had I asked for a Clemson shirt and wanted to be a Clemson fan, my parents would have kicked me out off the car on the rough end of Bluff Rd with all the addicts and gang bangers and said good luck before speeding off.


I too experienced the 11 loss fat brad and Sparky woods years. If we can tolerate those chapters, we can give this new culture situation a little more time. Itā€™s on the coaches to restock.
 
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1vagamecock

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Sorry if this gets long......

So I was born into a clem family & grew up within shouting distance of that dreaded place. In 1984, the excitement around the state about Gamecock football captured me. I was 6. I asked my parents for a Gamecock shirt for Christmas. For some reason, they obliged, even though they were Iptay members. Still to this day, my sibling chastises my parents for their decision. Anyway, I stuck with the Cocks, even though there were Tigers everywhere around me. In 1987, a longtime Gamecock Club member offered to take me to my first Carolina game. It was a 40-10 Cock victory over VPI. Sat in the south endzone. When I heard 2001 blare for the 1st time, I was hooked even further. No chance I'd ever go back to the orange. Fast forward to 1993, my parents, iptay boosters, again, agreed to let me do something. I saved my allowance money & they let me throw in with some neighbors who were Gamecock Club members to buy a season ticket. I would continue to do this for over a decade, even though just a few years later, I became a student at Carolina (there was no other place I even bothered applying to). I kept buying that ticket, even though I got student tickets during my time as a student, because I was worried I would lose it. My time as a student was rough on the football field--the Fat Bradstard era. My final football season was the 0-11 1999 season. Again, my loyalty & love never waivered. Anyway, & hitting the fast forward button........I'm now in my upper 40s, have a child at Carolina, & I still watch every game with the same intensity that I did 20+ years ago. My problem now is that more than ever, greed & entitlement has engulfed college athletics. A huge majority of players are now MERCS. They care little to NONE about the school I love. There are very few Boogie Huntleys (this young man needs to be praised often, & I hope he never has to buy a drink ever in his life in this state) who show love for Carolina. I thought Emmanwori might have been one, but boy was I wrong. He turned out to be just a selfish quitter. I'm at the stage where I want to care less. I have a closet FULL of Carolina attire. I wear it to work multiple times a week because I love to show my pride for my school. I feel like I need to change. If the most identifiable people that wear my school's logo don't care, then I feel like I should care less, as I'm just a simpleton that happens to be an alumni. Any advice from anyone who has successfully done this. I want to care a lot less.

Sorry so long. I'm frustrated & pissed. That Emmanwori stunt yesterday is something I never thought I'd see happen on my school's team. Especially from a home grown, local product.
I grew up around the Greenville area so I too was surrounded by ugly Orange.
I don't know that I care as much as I did in my late 40's, it might just be watching the decline of society it doesn't surprise me that sports would follow.
Watching the MBB game the other day the color analyst said "like Paris I like international players because they are not as entitled as American players ". Really tells you all you need to know.
 
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Sorry if this gets long......

So I was born into a clem family & grew up within shouting distance of that dreaded place. In 1984, the excitement around the state about Gamecock football captured me. I was 6. I asked my parents for a Gamecock shirt for Christmas. For some reason, they obliged, even though they were Iptay members. Still to this day, my sibling chastises my parents for their decision. Anyway, I stuck with the Cocks, even though there were Tigers everywhere around me. In 1987, a longtime Gamecock Club member offered to take me to my first Carolina game. It was a 40-10 Cock victory over VPI. Sat in the south endzone. When I heard 2001 blare for the 1st time, I was hooked even further. No chance I'd ever go back to the orange. Fast forward to 1993, my parents, iptay boosters, again, agreed to let me do something. I saved my allowance money & they let me throw in with some neighbors who were Gamecock Club members to buy a season ticket. I would continue to do this for over a decade, even though just a few years later, I became a student at Carolina (there was no other place I even bothered applying to). I kept buying that ticket, even though I got student tickets during my time as a student, because I was worried I would lose it. My time as a student was rough on the football field--the Fat Bradstard era. My final football season was the 0-11 1999 season. Again, my loyalty & love never waivered. Anyway, & hitting the fast forward button........I'm now in my upper 40s, have a child at Carolina, & I still watch every game with the same intensity that I did 20+ years ago. My problem now is that more than ever, greed & entitlement has engulfed college athletics. A huge majority of players are now MERCS. They care little to NONE about the school I love. There are very few Boogie Huntleys (this young man needs to be praised often, & I hope he never has to buy a drink ever in his life in this state) who show love for Carolina. I thought Emmanwori might have been one, but boy was I wrong. He turned out to be just a selfish quitter. I'm at the stage where I want to care less. I have a closet FULL of Carolina attire. I wear it to work multiple times a week because I love to show my pride for my school. I feel like I need to change. If the most identifiable people that wear my school's logo don't care, then I feel like I should care less, as I'm just a simpleton that happens to be an alumni. Any advice from anyone who has successfully done this. I want to care a lot less.

Sorry so long. I'm frustrated & pissed. That Emmanwori stunt yesterday is something I never thought I'd see happen on my school's team. Especially from a home grown, local product.
You are a true Gamecock, my friend. You had every reason to become a tater fan and student, but you chose the path of most resistance. And good on your parents, for letting you be you.
 
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Lurker123

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You are a true Gamecock, my friend. You had every reason to become a tater fan and student, but you chose the path of most resistance. And good on your parents, for letting you be you.

If we're being honest, we'd all do the same for our kids. That is real life vs message board talk.

Granted, there would be a lot of good natured ribbing.
 

Rhode Island Dork

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You are a true Gamecock, my friend. You had every reason to become a tater fan and student, but you chose the path of most resistance. And good on your parents, for letting you be you.
You know, I've never asked them why they catered to my request. I need to do that soon, as they getting on up there in age now.
 

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You are a true Gamecock, my friend. You had every reason to become a tater fan and student, but you chose the path of most resistance. And good on your parents, for letting you be you.
I believe Robert Frost wrote a poem related to that, "The Road Not Taken." šŸ˜
 
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