OT: Almost got away with it

cowbell88

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“Son, I’m disappointed in your actions, but if your mother had been the one to catch you, this would be an entirely different circumstance with totally different results”.
 

Drebin

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You said fingering

 

Chesusdog

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When my grandfather caught me smoking as a kid he made me finish the whole pack in one sitting. I'm sure there's some life lesson parallel here.

I also give really ****** advice and should not be listened to under any circumstances.
 

Drebin

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When my grandfather caught me smoking as a kid he made me finish the whole pack in one sitting. I'm sure there's some life lesson parallel here.

I also give really ****** advice and should not be listened to under any circumstances.

My father did the same thing with me and dipping. I told him I wanted to do it because everyone else was doing it. So he took me one morning and bought me a can of copenhagen, because that's what the cool kids dipped, so that's what I wanted. I was 14 at the time. When we got home I thought I was cool breaking the seal and popping the can, and then he made me take a dip right there and I turned about five shades of green. He was cooking breakfast and the smell was making it worse. I got sick and told him I didn't want to do it anymore, but he made me get another one, and then another one. Absolutely miserable.

Ultimately it didn't break me though. I went on to dip for a while. But at least I knew what I was getting into at that point.
 

peewee.sixpack

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Blaming porn for the destruction of a family is the equivalent of blaming a gun for the murder.

Not even close to the same. I have seen porn ruin multiple marriages. I would imagine it ruins many more than most of us realize. Bottom line to the original poster, use it as a teaching moment. We have all been there and explain that to him and explain to him the dangers it can cause in the future.
 

horshack.sixpack

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Of 30 somethings or younger, I suspect he is right. The issue is way more pervasive that you might think if you are over 45 and your best chance of seeing a boob was a discarded Playboy. Online porn is incredibly destructive, not to mention that it supports human trafficking and "enslavement" as well as a lot of underage abuse. I'm over 50 and I discounted the harm until I had to deal with it via some dudes I mentored.

ETA: Here are a few different takes:

https://nbc-2.com/news/2021/01/12/heres-how-your-porn-habit-could-be-helping-human-sex-traffickers/

https://humantraffickingsearch.org/the-connection-between-sex-trafficking-and-pornography/

https://restorationhousekc.org/debunking-4-myths-of-dmst/
 
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horshack.sixpack

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I think that your perception of these women making "choices" is the exception in that industry, not the rule.
 

ckDOG

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Maybe the neighbor is happily married?

Win win.
 

Drebin

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I think that your perception of these women making "choices" is the exception in that industry, not the rule.

Yeah, I don't agree with that. Everyone of sound mind is responsible for his or her own actions, and they all have consequences, both foreseen and unforeseen. When we start playing the victim game and looking for someone to blame, that's when crap goes sideways. That's a big part of what's wrong with this country today.

Does a lot of that stuff go too far? Yeah. Are women exploited in that industry? Yeah. Do some of those women get preyed on? Yeah. And there are shady things that happen with trafficking and all that stuff that is disgusting. But aside from that, most of these women chose that career, and many of them get paid well for it, and the ones who don't aspire to.

It must be embarrassing as hell to put on that exploitative hooters waitress outfit for girls who do that, too, but they choose to do it. Nobody is putting a gun to their head and making them do it.
 

horshack.sixpack

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Understood. I was exactly this sentiment until I was unfortunately forced to learn a lot more about that industry than I cared to.
 

PooPopsBaldHead

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Just spittballing this one 11thEagle... But is there a remote chance it wasn't the 11 year old that rented the movie. Could... Gulp... Could you have hit the jackpot by it in fact being his mother that rented it?

Going to need you to check out this possible scenario. While we know it's not likely, mustn't we all chase this type of lead if we are ever presented with the possibility of a wife who's intrigued by big naturals?

I'm rooting for you brother. It has to happen to somebody, might as well be you.
 
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11thEagleFan

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JLS, I appreciate that sentiment and I wish that were the case. Unfortunately, I talked to my son and he did indeed confess to the crime. He’s not in any kind of trouble, but will be doing a little above and beyond his normal chores this weekend.

Now, as others have been wondering, I was intrigued about whether there is a neighbor whose big naturals he has been admiring. The only thing I can come up with is my wife’s friend who lives 3 houses down. She is a 36 year old divorcee who’s not bad on the eyes. We often go to her place to swim, and I’m wondering if a gander at those sweater puppets in a swimsuit might’ve awakened something in my boy. I don’t want to break the news to him that while Stephanie does indeed have some bigs, they are anything but natural. I want him to believe that all breasts stay high and tight at 36.

In any case, Mrs. 11thEagleFan is an Arizona alum. I’m hoping that whether State or Zona wins, I get a look at some big naturals afterward. Hail State.
 

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SyonaraStanz

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Not even close to the same. I have seen porn ruin multiple marriages. I would imagine it ruins many more than most of us realize. Bottom line to the original poster, use it as a teaching moment. We have all been there and explain that to him and explain to him the dangers it can cause in the future.

Practice accountability. I seriously doubt the porn snuck in through the window one night and threw itself all over the addict. Let’s stop blaming an inanimate object and hold the decision makers/viewers/users accountable.
 
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