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dorndawg

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
Tell them to wait in the car while you go into the liquor store. Their begging slows down the process.

On a serious note. I went to drivers-ed years ago. Learning from a professional instructor instead of an emotional parent was beneficial for me.
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
High mileage used vehicle. It's not if, it's when. The first one will be sacrificed, so make it a high mileage used.
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
Find a large empty parking lot. Let her work on driving in the lines and parking in spots and using reverse. This lets her get some confidence without other cars or ditches. Then go to backroads without much traffic.
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
There are not so much driving tips as avoiding wrecks tips:
- Avoid unprotected left hand turns whenever possible. New drivers have trouble judging speed from drivers whether they are trying to get into the flow of traffic from a parking lot or side street or are trying to make a left hand turn to leave a busy street and it's worthwhile to just take those out of the equation if possible. There are a few roads where I just don't try to make a left hand turn out of a parking lot.
- Limit lane changes on roads that don't have restricted access. Easy for a new driver to rear end somebody while checking their blind spot. Don't pull a Dawg61 and just camp out in the left lane while driving below the speed limit, but basically get in the right hand lane and stay there unless and until you are reasonably close to the point that you are turning left.
- No eating while driving.
- The hardest one, and one that applies if they're riding with friends or the one driving - do not distract a driver or be distracted while driving. The obvious ones like no texting or playing with your phone or radio shouldn't be that hard, but ideally they wouldn't even be carrying on a conversation. Hard to tell teenagers not to have a conversation with their friends that are in the car though.
 

mstateglfr

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My state allows kids to get their permit at 14 and drive on their own at 14.5 to school and work, as long as they completed driver's ed.
There are some young drivers around here!
My oldest learned 3 years ago and my youngest has her permit now...at 14.


I think the most important part of learning is to introduce them to new stuff only as they feel ready. Dumb to send em to downtown and have them parallel park if they arent ready. Dumb to send em on the interstate during rush hour if they arent ready.

- empty mall parking lot driving to start. They can practice turning, starting, stopping, turn signals, backing out, parking, etc.
- side streets next. They can get used to distance to curbs, going around street parked cars, etc.
- trips to places they are familiar with next. Local grocery store, Target, etc.
- Interstate driving and rural highway driving next. Rural highway driving seems to be the easiest to pick up for new drivers.
- City driving is the final boss. Navigating 1way streets, pedestrians, construction, etc.

^ Depending on the kid, this can all take 12 days, 12 weeks, or 12 months to master. Some are still working on it 12 years later as adults.
 

DawgatAuburn

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I am an advocate of starting early. I had mine behind the wheel of a car in a parking lot at about 12. By 13, I'd let her drive maybe the last mile home if traffic was light and the only turns were in the neighborhood. At 14, home from the grocery store with a couple of lights and turns and a little traffic on the road. By the time she got her permit at 15, she was comfortable with all the basics which made more advanced situations easier to handle. She's now had her license a year and a half and aside from waiting too late to hit the brakes AT EVERY FREAKING RED LIGHT, she's done well. If it's too late for them to start early with your niece, I just don't think there's much better preparation than letting her drive as much as her parents are comfortable with it.
 

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Golf cart, side-by-side, go-cart, 4-wheeler, tractor are all good opportunities to learn the basics. Take them out into the country when they look ready to run the roads. Do not be surprised if they do not take much of an interest in learning to drive at all, even boys. For some reason, driving is not viewed as such a big deal by a large number of teens these days.
 
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Mine turns 15 in June. First, I took mine to my church parking lot and if empty, let her drive around between the lines some and learn to park at the end. Next I took her to the local high school parking lot, which is bigger and let her learn to use the parking signal and make turns.

When she does get her permit, I'm going to start in my neighborhood, which is small (only 2 cul-de-sacs). She will then drive to the church that's closest to out home, which is less than a mile away. Next trip will be McDonald's, which is 1.5 miles away. After she has driven some in traffic, I'll get her up early on a Saturday morning and let her get on the interstate when traffic is low.
 

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Golf cart, side-by-side, go-cart, 4-wheeler, tractor are all good opportunities to learn the basics. Take them out into the country when they look ready to run the roads. Do not be surprised if they do not take much of an interest in learning to drive at all, even boys. For some reason, driving is not viewed as such a big deal by a large number of teens these days.
The guy who lives across the street from me told me his daughter wanted to live in a city and not own a car. She has moved to Atlanta I think and her car is sitting in their driveway and it has for about 3 years now.
 
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As many said already golf cart or tractor. My oldest has his learner's permit now and will be driving in November/December. He started driving our golf cart around the neighborhood 3 years ago (at the displeasure of many of the blue hairs in my subdivision). It helped him tremendously to feel comfortable once he started driving my vehicle. He's taking drivers ed this summer at his school.

My daughter will be driving in two years and I have her driving around the neighborhood in our golf cart weekly.

Parking lots or neighborhoods are great places to start then work up from there.
 

mstateglfr

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She's now had her license a year and a half and aside from waiting too late to hit the brakes AT EVERY FREAKING RED LIGHT, she's done well.
I swear my oldest accelerates into red lights. Its wild to sit in the passenger seat. She is extremely safe, legit doesnt touch her phone, pays attention, goes safe speed, etc...but she has 0 interest in even coasting when a red light is ahead and cars are already sitting there waiting. God forbid she start braking, she wont even coast.

My wife drove our kid's car for 2 weeks and as a test, she reset the trip and MPG reporting to see what she would get for MPG vs our daughter. 3mpg better over 2 weeks of in town driving.
 
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dorndawg

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I swear my oldest accelerates into red lights. Its wild to sit in the passenger seat. She is extremely safe, legit doesnt touch her phone, pays attention, goes safe speed, etc...but she has 0 interest in even coasting when a red light is ahead and cars are already sitting there waiting. God forbid she start braking, she wont even coast.

My wife drove our kid's car for 2 weeks and as a test, she reset the trip and MPG reporting to see what she would get for MPG vs our daughter. 3mpg better over 2 weeks of in town driving.
My wife does this exact thing; she's hell on a set of brakes
 

mstateglfr

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I bought an older vehicle with a manual transmission for the purpose of teaching my kids to drive one in the future
Similarly, I bought one of these for the purpose of teaching my kids to mow the lawn in the future. It has never left the back corner of our shed, cuz I damn sure wont use it!
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
Place the ball up in your stance, tee it high, and let it fly
 

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I swear my oldest accelerates into red lights. Its wild to sit in the passenger seat. She is extremely safe, legit doesnt touch her phone, pays attention, goes safe speed, etc...but she has 0 interest in even coasting when a red light is ahead and cars are already sitting there waiting. God forbid she start braking, she wont even coast.
I feel like I wrote this. It's the exact same thing with mine.
 
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Started them out driving around on private dirt and gravel roads on a hunting Club behind a locked gate. No danger to anyone else. At first they would sit in my lap and just steer the truck. Eventually I would let them drive around the club roads while I was on the tractor. By the time they were 13 they could handle a vehicle so that when it was time to legally drive on public roads they could focus on traffic and didn’t have to think about the driving part too much.
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?

Don't try to teach her yourself. Get a qualified instructor. You daughter might listen to an instructor, and probably not to you.

Do they have driver's ed in school?
 

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Your driver's ed was drastically different than mine. It was just coaches getting extra hours

Same here, we would drive to their house to pick up stuff, stop and get coffee, etc and on rainy days instead of studying the MS Drivers License book we would watch football film of the next opponent.
 

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Having observed Mississippi drivers for some time now, I can postulate that these driver rules should be followed for a new
driver ** These are only a few of the many complex rules that young drivers should educate themselves toward.

1) left lanes are to be used without fail, it is a god-given right.
2) turn signals are optional, so save money by not adding that option when you buy your car
3) green lights at traffic signals mean that you brake immediately
4) always yield to all other vehicles at the intersection even if they have a red light
5) if you come across a traffic circle, it is mandatory that you stop at the entrance to the circle, do not proceed with the flow of traffic
6) Side-by-Side travel below the speed limit with a car in the adjacent lane is permitted, as it keeps those law breaking speeders under control
7) merging traffic should not accelerate to match the speed of the existing traffic on the highway, they should continue to drive at a slow rate until the merge lane ends then proceed to enter the lane
 

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My niece is getting her learner's permit soon and we will start some driving lessons. Of course with me being a Sixpacker, I'm a better driver than 99.99% of the world (excludes dawg61) but talent just can't always be taught.

For those of you who have taught a new driver before, what kind of recommendations would you give? Things you did which worked out well. or wish you hadn't?
Driving lessons?… hire Bama. They’ve been taking us to school for 100 years.
 
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It's quickly going the way of knowing how to shoe a horse. You'd be surprised how many semi's today are automatic.
I’m proud to say that I know how to do both. I’m much better at driving a stick than shoeing a horse but in my defense I haven’t owned a horse in years and I’m currently paying insurance on two sticks.
 

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Stick shift
That's how I learned. My dad bought me a stick, a puke brown 10 year old t-top Mazda RX-7 that I dearly loved. So he took me out on an empty road for a lesson. I wasn't really getting the whole clutch/gas/smooth acceleration thing. That sweet rotary engine wanted to run.

After about an hour of me giving both of us whiplash and grinding the hell out of it, he finally said "well you ain't gettin' the got-damn car until you learn to drive it". Took me about 5 minutes from that point.