You can do traditional Gourmet.
Agree Apps go light…
Perhaps asparagus wrapped in prosciutto
Maybe a little cheese…no crackers If Good Cheese!
Wines I would go Sauvignon blanc and as mentioned an Oregon Pinot noir.
My thanksgiving menu so far;
Spatchcocking a brined turkey on grill
Cognac Turkey gravy (not from the drippings
Cornbread stuffing (chestnuts, celery, rum raisin, carrots, peaches, onions, sage, rosemary, thyme, apples with buttermilk) Amazingly crusty yet moist.
Sweet potatoes orange citrus glaze casserole (Parmesan and rum raisin garnish)
Green Beans and Pecans with Lemon zest
Pearl onions and smoked ham (everyone loves it)
Mashed potatoes (PA wife needs them)
not sure on dessert yet