I have lived in Mississippi my entire life except for 3 years in Hendersonville, TN while my wife finished some schooling. I’m a country boy. My weekends consist of hunting, fishing, or watching my kids play sports. My family owns land(like a 100 acres) and we lease more land for hunting(1100 acres). I can’t imagine being happy in another state away from family land. Even if its not hunting season, just taking the family on a 4 wheeler ride or working in the garden is what we love. I keep reading about “things to do”…..like what? Going to bars sucks..im 40 and over that for my life. Hiking? Got it right here. Shopping? Im a dude that hates it and just assume online shop.
I can’t imagine not living in Mississippi and being content unless i spent millions to buy a lot of land.
For me:
- Water access. At least big enough to ski in but preferably big enough to "explore".
- I don't care for shopping, but I do like having a walkable area, preferably one that lets you carry a drink.
- I don't care about going to a bar as in going to a bar at night, but I do like the option of going to listen to live music (preferably in the afternoon or early evening; doesn't even have to be good music, just not bad) and I do like having some happy hour place options where it's reasonable to expect people will be there, and likely people you will know.
- I also want to be able to go have a drink and not have to worry about driving. Walking distance is best but at least want an uber available and it not be a 20 mile run.
- While I don't care about shopping per se, it is nice to have stuff available locally. Not nearly as important as it used to be with internet retail, but it's nice to be able to pop out to a home depot or lowes or Best Buy or look at furniture in person before you
- It is nice to have more than a handful of non-chain options when eating out.
- Some people want concerts. I don't care about them, but I get other people do. Same with professional sports.
Now with the exception of the concerts and professional sports, you can get more or less all of that in Mississippi, just not most of Mississippi. I would say the Coast, then Hattiesburg, then Jackson are your options (not sure about Desoto or Tupelo; they may offer the same but without the downsides of Jackson).
I think when people say there is nothing to do, they are typically people under 35 and single, which I would agree with them that no where that I know of in Mississippi has a scene for them that is particularly good. Memphis and Birmingham are going to be better, and then be blown out of the water by a Nashville or Atlanta. For me personally, I think the tradeoffs for those places after you are married is significant, but obviously I'm in the minority on that.
I think the bigger issue is just jobs. In most places in Mississippi, if you have a good job (outside of things like banking, insurance sales, healthcare, etc.), if you lose it, you will be lucky if there is a signle other employer that might hire you. A lot of places, you can't realistically leave your job unless you are willing to take a major cut or are willing to relocate. That potentially adds a lot of stress. And gets worse when you have a two income family. ON the flipside, while I don't think Birmingham or Memphis is that great, it would be nice to be able to have both earners active in the job market and looking for better opportunities that don't require relocation. Maybe more remote options will help with this.