We've been going since 1995 and have been DVC members since 2005, so I get the frustration. Imagine this change over the past 15 years:
2007: Disney's Magical Express picks you up at the airport, Disney cartoons play on the TVs while the bus takes you to your resort, at no charge. You prepared in advance, so you've already booked your 3 Fast Passes (free) for each day of the trip and don't have to worry about that again the whole time. You go to the Magic Kingdom your first day, and after a full day of the rides, get to watch an evening light parade down Main Street, followed by a lengthy fireworks show. Then, because its an Extra Magic Hours night, the park is open until 2 a.m. and you can ride whatever you want in a half empty park with no lines. You paid $400 for your 7-day ticket, with no add-ons.
2022: A nondescript Mears bus picks you up for $16/person. You have to wake up each day at 7 a.m. and get on your phone to book certain rides to make sure you can ride them, and you pay $15/day per person for this right. You go to Magic Kingdom, and as night falls learn there is no longer a nighttime parade. And the fireworks show has become much more laser-focused to cut costs. There's also no longer Extra Magic Hours. You paid $700 for your 7-day ticket, plus the daily add-ons for Genie+.
There are a lot more examples of this, those are just things off the top of my head. There have been so many services taken away or turned into charges, without anything new being provided, all while increasing the cost dramatically. That is turning a lot of long-time Disney World fanatics like myself off to the place. Obviously from your perspective, none of that matters. All you know is you're having a great time and a great experience with your family, and that's all that matters. I'm glad that's the case, I do still love the place (and am booking a trip for next March in a week). But Disney does rely a lot on return customers (obviously, given the aggressive expansion of DVC over the past 20 years). And I think many of these changes are short-sighted, as you may lure the long-timers back once, but eventually there is a breaking point where people say nevermind, you've gone too far, you can't just take things away and charge more ad infinitum. But we aren't there yet, or we'd see it in the attendance, and we don't.
There's a great series on Disney+ about the history of the Imagineers. One thing you notice is numerous peaks and valleys in how the parks are treated by the company. You'll have leadership that focuses on creativity, customer service, and the experience, and the parks grow and flourish, but then you'll have someone take over that is purely bottom-line focused, and the parks begin to suffer and attendance declines, until the cycle goes back to a new leader that returns to the key principles that make it such a great place. I fear we're in the early stages of one of those penny-pincher phases, we just haven't seen the fallout yet.
Anyway, sorry to go on so long, I'm just kind of passionate about it as our trips there have meant a lot to our family for decades. I hope you and your family have the time of your lives and ignore the complaints of curmudgeons like me. Perhaps the fault is ours for going so often, that we feel entitled to things we never should have.