From someone who has owned an EV for over 5 years now, a couple points.
If you have short range car (<240mi) , you are absolutely going to spend a lot of time charging on a road trip that exceeds by more than about 50%.
On the other hand, with a longer range car like my Model 3, you have 4 hours of non stop driving time or 280mi at 70mph. To go an additional 220mi at that point, WILL take about 20-30 minutes. In my case, I could care less because I am gonna need the RR and a snack. If You tend to stop more often, you will actually probably not notice much a of a difference in wait times as each little break you will have added 60-80 miles. That being said, if you are the type that will pee in a cup to save time, there is no doubt it will make the trip longer in an EV.
Gas vs charge? At the charging stations, prices can vary just like gas. In FL, there isn’t a huge spread in price at the moment, although prices are going up and power is not. In GA and AL it was much cheaper than gas. The big difference comes at home where most people will do most of their charging. It is much cheaper than a gallon of gas plugged in at home, in the southeast anyway.
It is not for everybody, but it also isn’t just a commuter car if it has long range and “real“ fast charging capability. (Tesla) I can also say that I bet I have spent less time actively charging than most people have actively fueling because 95% of my charging is at home and it takes me about 5 seconds to plug in and I am done. I always start out with a full tank of “gas” to start the day if I so choose.