Remote work should absolutely stay around. I've just hired 8 people internally at my company (we are allowed to post every 3-5 years) and I stole all kinds of talent, especially young, but more so people with kids who wanted the freedom to move somewhere close to family or where childcare cost less because I told them 'I don't care where you work from as long as you perform'. Our office is in Houston which as far as city footprint goes is the size of Connecticut..one of the women I hired had a 1.5 hour one way commute. Her current business was forcing her to come back into the office after almost 3 years of remote work and the most profitable quarter in the history of the company.
Also, Houston isn't as cheap as it used to be... I pay 3,000.00 a month for 2 kids in child care. Yes, you read that right... and no it's not a private or luxury daycare center. We would love to move somewhere smaller and cheaper where our money would go further but the looming 'hybrid' work makes you move to a city all in the name of coming to the office 20% of the time..
There are exceptions obviously. Smaller businesses - the model may not work but if you work for a larger company or corporation then there's no need for a massive office or forcing people to work.
I feel your pain. I have one more year of childcare before my youngest starts kindergarten. 8+ years of combined childcare expenses getting wiped off the books is going to be a massive windfall for me. The worst part is for the last 2 years, even though the youngest is in preschool and childcare... It gets shut down for a week every few months because of Covid/flu/etc due to the staffing being so thin. Pretty sure we have spent close to $120k on childcare over the last 8 years on 2 kids.
Since you have built it into the budget you should take that $3k a month and buy a big *** boat to put down in Galveston when the kids age out of childcare. You can spend long weekends down there with all the hybrid flexibility... And let me use it occasionally for giving you the idea.