I'm the one who shouldn't have bothered.I shouldn’t have bothered.
He wasn’t just showering alone with the unrelated boy with whom he was working in his role as a community agency mentor (unfathomable to anybody that has worked in such a role), but he had physical contact with him. Give him a pass if you wish, but there is absolutely no reason to do so.
I happen to agree with you that TSM should have never allowed JS or anybody else have one on one contact with troubled youth. I'm not even talking about sexual harassment. One on one contact is unacceptable and allowing it is asking for trouble. I assume the only reason the school let Jerry pick the boy up is because the kid's mother said it was OK.
But now to the sexual assault issue. All I said was that for a person Jerry's age it wasn't out of the ordinary for adults and children to be together in community showers. I recall being in one with my coach. IMO that mere fact doesn't constitute sexual assault. Yes it's unusual because Jerry wasn't the kid's father but I think the boy and his mother considered Jerry to be something of a father figure. Therefore I am willing to give Jerry the benefit of the doubt that nothing extremely egregious occurred in 1998, especially since investigator John Seasock concluded there was no concrete evidence of sexual assault and that Sandusky just needs to be taught boundaries.
HOWEVER, I think that event should have been a wakeup call for Jerry that would have motivated him to be much more cautious going forward. Unfortunately that doesn't seem to be the case so from that point forward I can no longer give him the benefit of the doubt.
You seem convinced that sexual assault clearly occurred in 1998 and that I'm a fool for not accepting that as a fact.
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