I semi-retired from Flowood area a few years ago to Starkville and would do it again no questions asked. I got in before housing prices went up here and Jackson became such a 3rd world country of its own.
I was driving to downtown area on Lakeland every day, it was a 45 minute commute each way during commute time on average day, add a wreck anywhere along the route and I was screwed. I can drive from my house in Starkville to Tupelo in 75 or less minutes (damn I hate West Point and their traffic lights and trains). I can be in Columbus in 20 from my house, Tuscaloosa in 90 minutes or less, Hoover AL just over 2 hrs, Jackson in 2 hrs, The Peabody in 2 hrs 45 minutes. I can hop a commuter flight from Tupelo to Nashville for just over $200 RT (sometimes less) and be anywhere shortly afterwards, Nashville has great connections. There was an article in Columbus paper a month or so ago about American Airlines still wanting to come to GTR airport but waiting out the recession and installation of jetways and 2nd story. About to be $4.5 million terminal built at George Bryan airport, not sure what that will mean other than better private jet service and teams will be able to fly here instead of GTR.
I really like the small town atmosphere here. My longest drive in Starkville, about 15 minutes to Walmart. Its not fine dining but I really like going to Starkville Cafe for breakfast w/ the liars table, a quick trip to Anthony's in W Point for a good steak, some good bar food at Zachary's in Columbus, or very good dinner at Hucks.
A live band is reason enough for me NOT to go somewhere, if Dave's or Ricks has one, I'm going somewhere else. I take in a lot of MSU sports. I saw some of the Templeton Jazz and Ragtime festival last month. I've taken several visitors to the Ulysses S Grant Presidential Library for a tour, toured some of the mansions in Columbus a couple weeks ago, went catfishing on the Tenn-Tom last Sunday. Lots of festivals in the Delta about to crank up (catfish, hot tamale, blues, etc) The Grammy museum in Cleveland (2 hrs away) is excellent and changes exhibits regularly.
I wish the hospital was larger and better but I've heard decent reports about the hospital in Columbus and heard no complaints about NMMC in Tupelo. Starkville may not be for everybody but it "ain't" so bad.