That's easier for some - Try that forgiveness thing when your wife is lying to you right to your face telling you that she "loves you, loves us, and loves our life together" - While Simultaneously getting in the car with another married man, alone, repeatedly as they take little "day trips" together - While Simultaneously catching her secretly recording you in your own bedroom - while simultaneously working with "someone" on the outside of the marriage to try to frame you for ...... (???).....hence the secret recordings - While simultaneously knowing that your 20 yr old son is passing away from Cancer ......... all at the same time, and she couldn't be bothered to show up to the hospital for last call, nor the funeral......
If someone has a way to forgive that - I'm all ears cause I've been steaming PISSED for 4 years now..... And she's still out there using my last name. I'm not sure I can bring myself to do it. Could you? Yeah - I divorced her and never heard a peep from her about any kind of apology.
EDIT*** - Not to be too debby downer - There's a TON of ladies around here who are meth heads with no teeth......