I sit in the lounge and I can tell you that we nor anybody around us feed the opposing players. If Robbie is talking about feeding the whole opposing team, I 100% agree with him. However I have no problem seeing someone at the fence throw a piece of sausage to an opposing outfielder who made a great play or takes all of the verbal abuse in stride. We also had around 10 students (friend's of the spot owner's son) in our box on opening day. There are 4 of us who split the cost of the spot and by the time each one of us have family and/or a close friend or two show up, all of our seating is full and 4 or 5 people have to stand.
Back during the Beverly Hillbilly lounge days we had one of the smaller rigs and could still comfortably seat around 18. Usually the only time we were full then was during Super Bulldog Weekend or regionals. We welcomed anybody then and they were free to come back but on their second trip we would tell them they had to pitch in and bring something for the grill. Now, with the smaller spots (we can seat 12 grown men), we fill up on Tuesday nights in February more times than not. Sorry. That's just the way it is. The only time I've known that we've turned somebody away was back during the old days when the owner booted a guy and his wife who were regulars because of the guy's attitude. He was one of those who would start pissing and moaning in the top of the 1st if our first pitch of the game was a ball and the owner got tired of his ****.
As far as it being a social event and people not watching the game, believe it or not there is probably a higher percentage of people in the lounge watching and paying attention now than there was in the old stadium. All of those people you see standing on the two concourses who are even halfway watching the game used to be congregated behind the rigs on the gravel road in left field and probably didn't even have a clue who we were playing.
I tell you what I'm going to do. Starting next Thursday (I'll be out of town this weekend and will be leaving the JSU game early for the Hump) once everybody in our spot has had a pass at whatever I'm cooking, I'll stand behind our spot and offer a bite to everybody who passes by until we run out. I'm not going to tell you where we are of what number our spot is so if you find me, you find me. If you're out there and somebody offers you some food, just ask "Are you the guy on 6pack?"
ETA: Don't get mad if I'm standing there with a plate of food and I don't see you. I actually watch the game and pay attention to details like pitch count, game situation, potential strategies and remember the player's last time at bat. In other words, I'm coaching in my head while watching the game. Now when something comes walking by in tight shorts, I do allow myself to be distracted for a few pitches.