Most likely unless they're truly exceptional.
My son was a very good HS soccer player. Varsity roster and part time starter in 8th grade. Jr and Sr team captain. All-conference. Captain of two other sports so good leadership skills, etc.
But his real dream was to be an engineer. Applied to and got into his school of choice, independent of thoughts of soccer. Then AFTER accepted, we reached out to the soccer coach. Obviously too late because the roster was set for the coming year. Coach suggested he play club soccer to stay sharp his FR year and coach would roster him his SO year after graduation opened some spots. Son then joined the university club team. Went to maybe a dozen practices and played in a game, then called me. "Dad, I'm gonna drop soccer. There's no way I'm ever going to make money in it and it's taking time and focus away from my classes." Mature kid, now with an MS in Biomedical Engineering. Plays indoor soccer with his buddies in a men's league and is happy as heck.
Point in all this is not to dad brag, but to stress to enjoy the heck out of their involvement in sports while it lasts. Most of my and my wife's friends are parents of kids our kids played sports with. So much fun and great memories even if it doesn't end up as a professional player or even a schollie.
Good luck to your kids and may you collectively make the right decisions for their futures!
I'm right with you. I was a "can't miss" baseball prospect, a lefty throwing in the 80's by the time I was 12 ... at a time when that was abnormal (less so now) ... I still missed. Still played some college ball (mostly as a position player), but not near what I once was before multiple crazy injuries. Luckily, I had some brains to fall back on. I just don't know where I left them.
As I'm an advocate for recruiting reform, to the extent that I believe college coaches shouldn't be able to contact a prospective student-athlete until AFTER that prospective recruit applies for admission and is accepted (blind to athletic ability) to that university, I'm in no rush to start the recruiting process ...
But it's coming (and those idiot coaches won't like me very much). The oldest is being told by ex-pros that he'll play at the next level. He's 15, has some heat (not like the real big boys, as kids his age are regularly throwing upper 80s into the 90s now - at least down South) and throws the curveball I "invented" better than I ever threw it. A pitching coach who made it to AAA, largely on the back of his curveball, told us "I've never seen anything like it ... I don't even understand it ... but keep throwing it." He's a DIII kid right now (like he could compete at DIII with what he has right now), and has easy projectability to mid-major/high D1.
He was a football stud, but already quit that because he thought most of the kids (and, well, the coaches, too) were drunken, drugged out idiots not going anywhere (he's right, but I didn't tell him that .... we have a perennial state-champ contending football team at a high academic MA public, too ... but, yeah, the majority of football players and their coaches are trash people).
He's taking all honors courses, has straight As, and has a natural aptitude for computer science and other STEM subjects, so we'll see where it leads. He's only a frosh ... I still had no idea what I was doing when I was a frosh ... IN COLLEGE ... so no rush for him to figure it out. Ultimately, the proud dad in me would love to see him pitch for MIT, but I'll settle for Harvard/Brown if need be.
His younger bro doesn't throw as hard (but throws "better") but has a much better bat (legitimately really, really good), and is actually smarter (shhh). He legit scares me. The wife wants to hire him right now because he writes better, and more logically, than the underlings at her law firm. At 13. She'll send me emails he writes to his teachers, explaining why their grades for assignments are wrong, because he submitted them, but they failed to acknowledge this fact ... and I'm just like "**** ... I don't even know what happened, but I'm convinced he's right."