this year:
about $40k to charitable causes, about $12k to my church, about $6k to a small town MS ministry in a drug crossroads that gives kids alternative learning opportunities and afterschool programs to try to keep them from drug culture, about $6k to a place that supports/feeds homeless, provides shelter/training to help them up/out and supports working poor, around $6k to a ministry that is building water wells and schools in 3rd world countries were poor gets redefined from what we call poor. all of these, i have skin in the game, personal relationships, and a solid idea of where/how the money is spent.
about $6k directly to an individual to help them get started in life once they graduated college. background, very poor, worked their way through college, been involved with them for a long time to help them break the cycle. gave them a car to get to/from college a few years ago. they have a real, full-time, professional job now and are self-sufficient. It would have been way easier for them to slip into the lifestyle they were raised in.
about $2k to a person who is working poor. been invested with this one about a decade and provide that little boost occasionally when life punches them in the face. working a decent job now, an apartment you probably wouldn't live in but is good enough, car, etc. 8 years ago was homeless
I can't help everyone, but I can help some, so I do.
I don't care what you spent, I'm asking for you to get specifically involved with "those people", because from your rhetoric, it is obvious to me that you do not currently work with working poor directly and/or know many/any. I know this because when you get directly involved, hear the stories of specific people and help where you can, it changes you from "them" to "us" as you realize we are all just people. You might even begin to recognize that you had a pretty solid head start in life compared to others. Of course that is speculation. I don't know you. For all I know you worked your way out of a terrible situation growing up with no family support at all. If so, kudos, now go extend a hand to the next guy.
ETA: started a Bagley endowment this year that provides scholarships to black or minority Mississippians with demonstrated financial need. Made it so that it didn't have a sky high year one GPA requirement because I've seen what an adjustment it can be going from small town public school to MSU and didn't want them losing all their scholarship $$$ because they had to learn how to make it at MSU. Hoping to see that pay dividends in the engineering school.