I’ve been married 23 years and love my wife. Yet she’s not perfect and if somebody were to point out something about her that bothers them I wouldn’t mock them or tell them that they’re wrong.Interesting that in your effort to assign credit to Franklin you create two lines, while his "failings' bring four. LOL
However, I will suggest that the positive traits you mention have always been the most important in my judgement.
I fail to see any comparison in evaluating a college football coach as a fan and being in a committed relationship.
My wife passed away more than 13 years ago after 37 years of marriage. So, in fairness, I may have forgotten some things.
But I'm pretty sure if I had as many negative things to say about her as you do Coach Franklin.....the relationship would not have endured.
IMO, the element that you fail to recognize is the nature of competitive sport. Two teams compete....very skilled coaching staffs, and great athletes on both sidelines. Attributing every loss to the coach is a very simplistic approach. As much as we hate to recognize it, sometimes the other guy wins. Coaches will never be perfect....nor will players, and certainly not game officials.
Only fans have all the answers all the time.
My mother told me when I was a teen to never put the woman I marry on a pedestal because that would not be fair to her. I would give you the same advice about Franklin.