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LB99

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For sure, Joe was one of the most important people in the history of the university. For sure, the BOT is garbage. But the university existed before Joe and it'll exist long after Joe. I never met the man but it seems to me he'd be uncomfortable with the notion that he's the university and the university is him.
Agree. I also don’t understand the obsession with putting the statue back up. The statue of a man who claimed to never want it in the first place. Is that to honor him? Or pacify those that are clamoring for it?
 

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Did I miss something? What precipitated this conversation? Why on a random Thursday in February are some getting out the pitchforks and torches to avenge Joe’s mistreatment? Why do some conjure up this rage every few weeks to months and profess it all here? If the university put the statue back up and issued a public apology, would those that claim to be done with the university (yet come here to complain about all things PSU routinely) be satisfied? Would you open up your checkbooks and let all flow back to PSU? (If you ever did in the first place). I think I know the answer to that.
 

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Yup, and they realize without a proper correction, the very same thing can happen to the current or future coach. The stage one thinkers struggle to see the bigger picture.
You mean the same group that bashes the current coach because he isn’t Joe? Seems like a pretty clear picture.
 

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Did I miss something? What precipitated this conversation? Why on a random Thursday in February are some getting out the pitchforks and torches to avenge Joe’s mistreatment? Why do some conjure up this rage every few weeks to months and profess it all here? If the university put the statue back up and issued a public apology, would those that claim to be done with the university (yet come here to complain about all things PSU routinely) be satisfied? Would you open up your checkbooks and let all flow back to PSU? (If you ever did in the first place). I think I know the answer to that.
Hero worship/cult membership uber alles. It explains so many things in history, and in modern times.
 

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Did I miss something? What precipitated this conversation? Why on a random Thursday in February are some getting out the pitchforks and torches to avenge Joe’s mistreatment? Why do some conjure up this rage every few weeks to months and profess it all here? If the university put the statue back up and issued a public apology, would those that claim to be done with the university (yet come here to complain about all things PSU routinely) be satisfied? Would you open up your checkbooks and let all flow back to PSU? (If you ever did in the first place). I think I know the answer to that.
Personally most people don't care about the statue. I personally don't think it even looked that much like Joe. I would like something along Paterno Field put in the Beav. It would be nice if/when they did that PSU Admin said some nice things about Joe and the Paterno family. We all know the BOT left them hung out to dry and take all the blame so the BOT members could keep their cushy Fortune 500 board positions and direct the attention away from them including those serving on the 2nd mile board. Heck some media members have admitted publically that hindsight being 20/20 they overreacted in blaming Joe when he did what is now required in the handbook of dealing with this. If PSU did this I would think a chunk of people would get back to writing checks to PSU. I am a realist and know the PSU BOT is not going to get down on their knees and beg for forgiveness and admit they were wrong. But maybe meet half way in the middle in acknowledging Joe and the Paterno family and all the good they have done for PSU and continue to do.
 

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Personally most people don't care about the statue. I personally don't think it even looked that much like Joe. I would like something along Paterno Field put in the Beav. It would be nice if/when they did that PSU Admin said some nice things about Joe and the Paterno family. We all know the BOT left them hung out to dry and take all the blame so the BOT members could keep their cushy Fortune 500 board positions and direct the attention away from them including those serving on the 2nd mile board. Heck some media members have admitted publically that hindsight being 20/20 they overreacted in blaming Joe when he did what is now required in the handbook of dealing with this. If PSU did this I would think a chunk of people would get back to writing checks to PSU. I am a realist and know the PSU BOT is not going to get down on their knees and beg for forgiveness and admit they were wrong. But maybe meet half way in the middle in acknowledging Joe and the Paterno family and all the good they have done for PSU and continue to do.
Thank you for the well thought out response. I appreciate it. Unfortunately, there does seem to be a fair amount of those who are holding on to things like the statue.
 
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I am a realist and know the PSU BOT is not going to get down on their knees and beg for forgiveness and admit they were wrong.
Is there anyone left on the board today that was part of Joe's firing and the handling of things directly after "stuff" hit the fan? If so, isn't it a very small minority of the current board?
 
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I walked away from Penn State for a number of reasons. Joe was one, but it was also incompetent leadership at both the Board of Trustees and Alumni Association levels; fiscal irresponsibility; sliding academic rankings; and the realization that what I perceived Penn State to be never existed. There is an arrogance among many Penn State alums that we are far better than other schools. For 40 years I was one of them. In fact we are pretty much the same. Every school has its share of angels and demons, reasons for pride and shame, glorious victories and crushing defeats. All that said, it is possible that I am the one with the problem. Penn State may be all that her admirers proclaim her to be, and I have just become a crotchety old man. More likely the answer lies somewhere in between. We much each decide for ourselves.

happy kat dennings GIF
 

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Just curious. Do any of you know the Paterno family? Sue, Scott, Jay, or their sisters? Do any of you know them personally? If so, does the family feel they need an apology or recognition? Do they want the statue put back up? I’m not looking for heresay or rumor, but actual first hand knowledge.
 

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Just curious. Do any of you know the Paterno family? Sue, Scott, Jay, or their sisters? Do any of you know them personally? If so, does the family feel they need an apology or recognition? Do they want the statue put back up? I’m not looking for heresay or rumor, but actual first hand knowledge.

For the record, do not care at all about the statue or Paterno. For me, there needs to be some meaningful engagement with alums who do have strong feelings about Paterno and things like academic ranking, tuition, admissions for PA residents, and alumni representation on the BOT.
 

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Who the heck is we? Maybe I'm selfish, but I care a whole lot more about me.

I choose PSU, they didn't choose me. I paid for and got an education. After that, PSU owed me nothing, and I owed them the same.

I follow Penn State football because its good entertainment. Forty years ago, I'd have said the same thing about "Cheers".

Has the school really screwed up a lot of stuff over the years? Yep, Do I really care? Nope.

Will I watch PSU football next year? Yep. Did I mention its good entertainment.
 

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Even those who weren't Joe Paterno fans recognized the injustices leveled against him by an uninformed media and a fiduciary irresponsible BOT.
Agree….but why should people still make these coaches and players pay for what was done a long time ago? How long does the football program have to pay?
 

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Quite the contrary Ludd, been going for many years, twenty years of support as an honorary coach, years of being a basketball season ticket holder from Parkhill through Dunn.

So just close your mouth and blow me.
That’s not what your post said….maybe think before you post.
 

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Where I stand on PSU...
  • It was where I spent the best 4 years of my life, and will always hold a special place in my heart
  • Any time I drive onto campus/College Ave, so many memories come back and I feel like I'm in a really special place
  • My son is getting ready to enter High School. When he told us a few months ago that he wanted to go to Penn State, I told him that while that can be an option, we'll definitely consider schools like Rowan and Rutgers which are likely much better options (it did make me happy though when he questioned Rutgers but then said "that's right, everyone from Rutgers hates Penn State, but people from Penn State don't care about Rutgers").
  • This (and the fact that I haven't given anything to the school in years) are completely due to the cost of an education, and the fact that I don't feel that the leadership today is a good steward of $ and/or cares about the mission of providing a quality education at an affordable price.
  • The crap that the BOT is pulling in regards to minimizing the alumni voice/choices in elections, limiting public comments, lack of transparency and doing so much business behind closed doors, etc. impacts my willingness to give $ to PSU or send my children there, but will never impact the love that I have for my alma mater.
  • I'm a huge PSU sports fan, support all of those that played for or coached at PSU...but also support PSU alums in the workforce/community, look to hire/pass along resumes of PSU alums, love connecting with PSU alums, and hope that our University continues to thrive.
 
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I am we. My kids are we. My parents are we. My friends are we.
joe should have retired after Daryl Clark graduated in 2009 or even 2008 when Derrick Williams left. He proved that he was still great. He let himself get a little to old and the board finally had the guts or lack of to kick a good man when he was down. They brought the entire university to its knees.
Psu is not about football or any other one sport or one major Etc. it is a whole. Everything working together to make it a great institution of higher learning. yes you should donate to psu and all sports not just football. Scholarships help students. Alumni assoc, nil, nlc, etc help keep the whole university rolling and up to date and make us all proud when we visit.
My father worked there as a professor for 50 years and still is heavily involved at 93. Same with me, my friends, my family. So should you!!
 
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I walked away from Penn State for a number of reasons. Joe was one, but it was also incompetent leadership at both the Board of Trustees and Alumni Association levels; fiscal irresponsibility; sliding academic rankings; and the realization that what I perceived Penn State to be never existed. There is an arrogance among many Penn State alums that we are far better than other schools. For 40 years I was one of them. In fact we are pretty much the same. Every school has its share of angels and demons, reasons for pride and shame, glorious victories and crushing defeats. All that said, it is possible that I am the one with the problem. Penn State may be all that her admirers proclaim her to be, and I have just become a crotchety old man. More likely the answer lies somewhere in between. We much each decide for ourselves.
We were sanctimonious and it's part of why people took such delight in tearing us down
 

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But what we were proud of was legit. Players graduated at a high clip. Black players graduated at the same level as white players and that didn't happen anywhere. Players were held accountable. Education mattered.
Does that not happen now? Does Franklin not hold the players accountable and challenge them to apply themselves as a college student?
 

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I don’t hate the German people today because they spawned Hitler in the 30’s - Joe was not a perfect person and I wish he would have called the University and State College police the night that weasel McQuery came to him with his watered down story - then he could have said I went above and beyond and even put the University at risk for an allegation that may have been false - hindsight is always 20 20 but he could of done more and the Second Mile and University found a perfect scapegoat. My Daughter is there now and almost all the current students know little if anything about those days for better or worse - if you can’t get past it I understand but life goes on and no I don’t give PSU money except for my daughters tuition which I think is more than enough.
 
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This thread confirms what most here realize. The Penn State Community is deeply divided. There are good, passionate, people on both sides. I would hope discussions like this will bring about greater understanding, and with understanding often comes respect. Many of these issues may have a middle ground that can bring us all closer together. To that end, the ad hominem attacks need to stop. Arguing at a middle school level serves no purpose but to widen the divide. That said, I will step off my soap box and eat a late dinner. May God bless us, every one.
 
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Posted for context/edification. Thanks.
Gotcha. Here’s more updated articles for context/edification. Thanks.


 

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Gotcha. Here’s more updated articles for context/edification. Thanks.



Any word of unnamed nefarious forces undermining the football program?
 

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I graduated from Penn State, and have two children who did as well.
But I haven't sent PSU a penny since they threw Joe under the bus, and never will again.
I root for the football team and I've been verbally supportive of the HC, but I don't write any checks to support them.
I watch on TV, and at 74 I doubt that I'll ever step foot into the Beav again.

Am I still "WE"?

what's your story? are you "WE"?
More “we” than anyone associated in any way for what was done to Joe!
 

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I am "WE." I am sane. You are "you" and "cuckoo," but not "we."

I've more than made up for your lack of donations, and attendance and interest has rebounded ... as if you aren't missed in the least. No one cares about your wrong-minded protest which, if successful, would do nothing but hurt even more kids. Luckily, your cult-like hero worship wasn't able to be successful, long-term. No one wants you in their beav.
Penn State can not keep up without support of its fanbase. A good part of it is still rightfully angry and insulted.

BoT needs to step up and honor Paterno and family (and apologize) or we will be our perpetually building up a victory over SMU or some potato university as “progress.”
 
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Just curious as I have contemplated this issue often. What would the university narrative be to honor Joe Paterno in some way? How does the school signal the need, desire and decision to honor him now? I really don't know the answer.
Swallow pride, admit their mistake.

Tough stuff. But real leaders can make it so.
 

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They won't. It would require an admission that they were wrong, that the Freeh report was a sham and that the people who protected The Second Mile were never held accountable. The backlash from the press would be huge- no way they ever do it.
Looks to be correct. But never say never.
 

MacNit

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You harbor such animosity over the alleged mistreatment of one person that you've abandoned a university because of it.

And you felt compelled to make a thread proclaiming this, and asking for support in your petty vindictiveness and harboring of hate ...

And you're calling someone else a "nasty little thing"?!?!

I just made another donation to the university in Nitt1300's name.

Fix yourself. Or just go away and let your emotional immaturity eat away at you in silence.
One person?! That “one person” built the football program that you see a remnant. And he made Penn State a world class university. Not just any person!
 
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